Fr. Michael Sliney, LC
“No one is useless in this world,” retorted the Secretary, “who lightens the burden of it for any one else.” Charles Dickens
It’s as simple as being attentive to the needs of others and taking action to lessen their burdens.
God bless,
Fr. Michael Sliney, LC
“A silent look of affection and regard when all other eyes are turned coldly away–the consciousness that we possess the sympathy and affection of one being when all others have deserted us–is a hold, a stay, a comfort, in the deepest affliction, which no wealth could purchase, or power bestow.” Charles Dickens
My mom, dad and siblings all gave me that “look”…and my Legionary priests also offer that tremendous brotherhood…give this gift to your friends!
God bless,
Fr. Michael Sliney, LC
“It’s a poor heart that never rejoices.” Charles Dickens
Grateful hearts often rejoice…focus more on the blessings and God’s tremendous love for you!
God bless,
Fr. Michael Sliney, LC
“It is because I think so much of warm and sensitive hearts, that I would spare them from being wounded.” Charles Dickens
Some people are a little more sensitive…do “you” care?
God bless,
Fr. Michael Sliney, LC
“He was simply and staunchly true to his duty alike in the large case and in the small. So all true souls ever are. So every true soul ever was, ever is, and ever will be. There is nothing little to the really great in spirit.” Charles Dickens
Cooking a meal, paying the bills, doing the laundry, preparing the morning coffee, remembering people’s birthdays and anniversary’s, praying for others…the small stuff, but done with love, means SO MUCH!
God bless,
Fr. Michael Sliney, LC
The Church is our Mother from cradle to grave, giving us spiritual birth in the Sacrament of Baptism and preparing for us for eternal life in the Sacrament of Anointing of the Sick. Many consider this Sacrament more as “Last Rites” but it is not only for those who are close to death, but also for those with a serious illness or before a potential life threatening operation. The catechism of the Catholic Church reminds us: “The first grace of this sacrament is one of strengthening, peace and courage to overcome the difficulties that go with the condition of serious illness or the frailty of old age. This grace is a gift of the Holy Spirit, who renews trust and faith in God and strengthens against the temptations of the evil one, the temptation to discouragement and anguish in the face of death. This assistance from the Lord by the power of his Spirit is meant to lead the sick person to healing of the soul, but also of the body if such is God’s will. Furthermore, “if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven.” (#1520)
Occasionally this Sacrament has a healing power and can produce a miracle. I once anointed a man as he was on the way to the operating room. He looked pale and near death and even the doctor told me that he had a slim chance of making it…ten years later, he is alive and well today! Another 30 year old man had been hit by a car while crossing the street and was in a coma for a few days when I went to give him this Sacrament. His mom and sister were in the room and they told me the Doctors were not hopeful…I later received a call from one of his friends, saying that he recovered and wanted to thank me personally. He told me, “Fr. Michael, I don’t know you, but I remember your visit to me in the hospital room a few weeks ago. I was in a coma, but for some reason, your presence made a special impact on me. I could hear your words and more importantly, I felt the power of your blessing. It was very real and I consider this to be a miracle. I wanted to thank you personally for this special grace.” I told him, “I am just an instrument…be sure to thank God. He must love you very much.” Another 80+ year old man was recovering from a stroke in intensive care, and during the blessing, his eyes opened wide and he spoke with much greater clarity…all of the kids were in the room and they were amazed to see this immediate cause and effect.
Sometimes, it can be a more silent witness that makes the most impact. A gentlemen in DC was no longer able to talk and his wife thought he might be near the end, so she asked if I could stop by to administer the Sacrament. Immediately after the blessing, he reached out for my hand and held it tightly…his eyes filled with tears and he was trying to whisper, “Thank you…thank you for coming…thank you so much.” When I entered the room, his face reflected a lot of anxiety, as I left, I saw tremendous calm and joy. Two days later, he died in peace.
Death is a mystery. As we approach the door of eternity and our final journey to meet God, allow his soothing grace to touch your hearts or those of your loved ones…God wants to accompany us in this final phase!!
“None of us clearly know to whom or to what we are indebted in this wise, until some marked stop in the whirling wheel of life brings the right perception with it. It comes with sickness, it comes with sorrow, it comes with the loss of the dearly loved, it is one of the most frequent uses of adversity.” Charles Dickens
My mom and dad did so many acts of self-sacrifice for me in my youth…and they were always there when I needed them. You don’t forget that!
God bless,
Fr. Michael Sliney, LC
“We need be careful how we deal with those about us, when every death carries to some small circle of survivors, thoughts of so much omitted, and so little done-of so many things forgotten, and so many more which might have been repaired! There is no remorse so deep as that which is unavailing; if we would be spared its tortures, let us remember this, in time.” Charles Dickens
God bless,
Fr. Michael Sliney, LC
TKC!
“Relying on God has to begin all over again every day as if nothing had yet been done.” CS Lewis
Christ is always close by, especially in our storms, but we need to reach out to him.
God bless,
Fr. Michael Sliney, LC
“The closer one approaches to God, the simpler one becomes.” St. Teresa of Avila
As we grow older, we need to re-gain the simplicity and trust of our childhood.
God bless,
Fr. Michael Sliney, LC