“Don’t wince under the hammer that strikes you. Have an eye to the chisel that cuts you and to the hand that shapes you. The skillful and loving Architect may wish to make of you the chief stones of his eternal edifice and the fairest statues in his kingdom. Then let him do it. He loves you. He knows what he is doing. He had had experience. All his blows are skillful and straight and loving. He never misses, unless you cause him by your impatience.” St. Louis de Montfort